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Comment on What is True Love in a Relationship According to the Bible? by lesoned

lesoned — Sun, 28 Apr 2024 12:39:14 +0000

In reply to wally. Most things if not everything is two sided and depends of how you perceive it, jealous could be a sign of love to someone in the sense you love them and you don't want to lose them, it could also be a sign of insecurity, low self esteem and fear of abandonment, besides you can also be jealous of people you don't love.

Comment on Why Do Women Stay in Abusive Relationships? by wally

wally — Sat, 27 Apr 2024 00:24:10 +0000

Watched my mother do this for 7 years…multiple (10?) cheating by him and at least 150+ beatings over that length of time. Never figured out why. Reason given was love. But that lead to 7 years of terror. She left and went back 4 times during that time. unbelievable really but there ya go. Irreparable damage to keep going back. Don’t do it…

Comment on 10 Reasons Why People Cheat in Relationships by wally

wally — Sat, 27 Apr 2024 00:06:04 +0000

Body count matters, no its not nomral or moral to have multiple partners God’s plan doesn’t include sampling. There are several choice words in scripture to back that up. 1 mistake is one thing 2 or more no. One should be a virgin on one’s wedding night to be honest. Pair boding is the other victim here. More pronounced in women than men to be sure and unfair, nonetheless when your body count hits 2 or more for women they start losing the ability to pair bond. It’s very bad advice to suggest sampling for secular or biblical standpoints.

Comment on Can Guys and Girls be Just Friends? by wally

wally — Fri, 26 Apr 2024 23:59:07 +0000

It’s rare that a boy and girl can be just friends without something happening. A relationship between a boy and girl should have a goal and that is marriage. If it were still that way we would not have the messy world we live in today. If one isn’t feeling it the other is. In a world where cheating is over 60% (90% in Thailand I hear) everywhere and growing these kind of relationships especially if already in a committed relationship with someone else are a threat to fidelity. If you are under 13 and haven’t hit puberty maybe so not after that though. Sampling everyone is a bad thing not a good thing. Body count matters.

Comment on What is True Love in a Relationship According to the Bible? by wally

wally — Fri, 26 Apr 2024 23:49:57 +0000

Incorrect amundo on the jealousy thing. God is a jealous God and he likens His relationship to that of a husband and wife.
Only cheaters think jealousy is always a bad thing they often try to turn it on their victim. While true, too much destroys a relationship zero jealousy will too. Zero shows a complete lack of care, love and valuing what you have. It’s a fine line between too much and too little. Without a little jealousy there are zero boundaries. Boundaries are by nature in a relationship a smidgen of jealousy. Zero jealousy is not biblical at all. No matter what paul says.

I see the angle here free love, casual love and deviant love…not winners at all…